What kind of mom are you according to your horoscope sign?

It is not easy to raise a decent and independent human being. Maternity is a full-time job – actually more like two or three. Each of the twelve signs of the zodiac has its reserves and weaknesses elsewhere. And this also applies to motherhood.

So it is probably advisable to draw attention to them so that you can work with them and somehow compensate them. So what do individual signs make the biggest mistakes in and where should they go wrong?

It is very difficult for Aries mothers to have enough patience with their child. They can be incredibly playful and silly with it, it’s no problem for them to put on their “childish self”, but when they have to wait an hour to tie their shoelaces or wear a hat with the incessant “me alone, me alone”, they rarely keep a cool head and without increased voice. Rams are often quick to explode and then regret it because they understand just as quickly that nothing actually happened. So work on self-calming, count to ten (or more) and, above all, breathe deeply.

Taurus mothers, on the other hand, can be very patient and calm when it comes to dealing with various tantrums. But he can’t keep up with his offspring, when it comes to puberty or otherwise more turbulent changes in children’s lives. This sign sails through life at its own leisurely, slow pace, and has absolutely no record of improvisation or quick adaptation. These mothers often perceive their offspring as a small baby in need of protection and support, even though in front of them they are actually an adult with their own opinions and truths.

It is difficult for Gemini mothers to provide their children with such a classic home that is a safe harbor for them under all circumstances. Their fickleness and a kind of multifacetedness prevent them from creating a constant atmosphere full of friendliness, and their children are used to the fact that they never quite know what to expect at home. In addition, they may have difficulty lowering themselves intellectually to a child’s level, and often act and talk to children simply like adults. Which, in the end, doesn’t have to be harmful at all, whining is actually useless.

Seagulls can be suffocating mothers – with their enormous love, their excessive care and fear. If they had their way, they’ll wrap their child in several layers of bubble wrap and never let them out into the real world. Family is the center of life for them and they love their children like nothing else in the world. They do not allow excessive caution to be excused, and with their anxiety, they can raise individuals who are overly sensitive and fixated on their parents. In short, they have to consciously learn to let the child take the reins, even if it may not be easy for them, it will help the child.

It is sometimes difficult for Leo mothers to step back from the spotlight and accept that they are not the one who stands at the center of events and around whom the world revolves, that this position is simply naturally taken by their child and they will have to step back, put their needs aside because that’s simply how it is in motherhood. Of course, lionesses understand this, but they have a very hard time dealing with it and often feel strong feelings of frustration because of it. Which actually frustrates them more than once due to the innate generous and generous nature of lions.

As mothers, Virgos are very careful and almost perfect, in short, like in everything. However, they falter in one thing – they try to cram their offspring too much into charts and schedules and make them follow their mother’s organized baton. Unfortunately, children are like a hurricane and will turn a Virgo’s neat, orderly life upside down in seconds. Virgos have to learn to improvise and change plans at the last minute, but also to not plan anything. And then watch out for excessive criticism and striving for perfection – feel free to torture yourself if you can’t do it otherwise, but children don’t deserve it.

Libra mothers have a problem mainly with their indecision, which is sometimes paralyzing. Having a child means dealing with details day after day, hour after hour, constantly making decisions not only for yourself, but also for your child, who is not yet able to make informed decisions. In addition, Libra sometimes has a hard time stomping down and toughening up, really demanding that the child stick to predetermined rules and not cross the line. Their setting is absolutely key, and Libra must learn consistency in this regard.

Mothers born under the sign of Scorpio often have trouble showing their child their true selves, opening up to them completely. They maintain a certain aloofness and closedness, which is something that children sense and should definitely not sense from their mother. It is therefore necessary for Scorpios to work on greater openness and not keep so many things for themselves hidden behind a facade. Just open the door a little and the mother-child relationship will take it to a whole new level. The child needs to know that he can count on you and that you will never push him away.

Sagittarius women sometimes take their child too much as a partner and friend, to the point that they lose their maternal role and position of authority. Sure, it’s great to have a friendly relationship with a child and to understand each other, there’s no need to artificially “elevate” yourself, but the child needs to know the boundaries and needs to have an authority behind him that he can lean on. And you have to be the one for him. Be partners, but also be clear about when to listen and when all the fun is over. Also, Sagittarius mothers should not completely overdo it with their famous honesty, sometimes it can even hurt.

Capricorn mothers are subject to the pressure of the environment, or rather the pressure of traditions – they do things in a certain way simply because it is “done that way”, and they do not think for themselves what would be best for them and their child. In addition, they also sometimes adopt a too cold attitude and do not offer their offspring enough hugs and cuddles or warm words. Expressing feelings and emotions is problematic for them, it is something they have to actively work on and it does not come to them “by itself”. So you really need to think about it so that the child feels enough love from you.

Aquarian mothers are amazing children’s souls with a great imagination and full of creativity, who can invent incredible activities and keep their child entertained and occupied in a very original way. The problem is their desire for freedom. It can happen that sometimes, in the midst of introspection and the desire for self-realization, they sort of forget the child and start to solve their own problems. They should mainly work on fully accepting the mother’s role, which unfortunately does not know holidays and vacations. And also not to give excessive freedom to the offspring either.

Fish would cut themselves up for their baby and conscientiously take care of all his needs and wishes, they will do whatever they see in their eyes. The problem with them is their submissiveness – they let the child jump on their head, for example, to maintain peace and quiet. They can also be overly emotional and experience things too much. Pisces are very sensitive and very empathetic, they sense every tremor and mood change and take everything very personally. In parenting, you often need to just wave some things off a child’s mouth and move on knowing they didn’t mean it.