A somewhat narrow view of the 3 + 1 apartment block dweller. There are also other types of real estate. Even multigenerational. Where to have dinner together, for example.
It’s almost starting to bother me personally. We have a huge country house and I, on the other hand, hope that some of the children will decide to settle here. Why should descendants let strangers earn money in subletting? Why should they spend and ruin their lives with bloody mortgage prices? Often, even though they work, have an education, don’t spend on endless nights of entertainment and brand new cloths, they still can’t afford mortgages.
To be honest, these articles smack of the lobby of apartment owners and banks. I know, it’s an amazingly popular topic and will get a decent readership. However, it is also annoying and indicates a bad outlook.
The mononuclear family is one of the achievements of modern society, which, however, has recently become radically impoverished and owning, or at least quality rental housing without the stress of moving every year, is becoming unaffordable.
So why not go back to mommy and daddy? No, mom, the hotel is not expected. A financial share for energy and help for parents is assumed, and it does not mean that we will hang around each other’s necks or that someone will clean up after someone.
No, I’m not going to raise an independent, lazy adult child here, but on the contrary, an adult, independent individual who will take care of himself in every way. We can help each other.
I know several such families in the area. Either they live in one big house, or the young people have built their own house in the garden. Don’t believe the scary jobs about going after each other. On the contrary, they praise it, there is always help at hand, for everyone
How many real moms are there, compared to offspring who live with their parents and at the same time participate in the running of the household, both financially and with help.
I fear that despite the do-gooders, society has to come to terms with the extended family once again folding and facing the “economic discomfort” that the unruly politicians and their breadwinners have in store for us.
What is more natural than for parents to face it together with their offspring? Using public opinion to push young people to become independent at the cost of poverty is immoral. After all, if the parents were able to do something like their own home, then what is the reason to wait until they die? Hoping that some smart guy will deprive them of the house and leave the heirs with eyes to cry? The extended family does not allow itself to be robbed so easily.
So let’s try to think about “motherhood” from a broader point of view.
Likewise, about the forced humiliation of young people. Most parents work hard for their children and don’t want to see them not only robbed, but also dishonored for connecting with their parents and using common sense.
The stories of real mothers are so unique that statistically they will be about as significant as raising quail in the living room.
