A friend excitedly announced her engagement to me. I should be happy with her, but I’m afraid of who she’s marrying

A friend excitedly announced her engagement to me. I should be happy with her, but I’m afraid of who she’s marrying – Lifee.cz

Daniela (31) is my longtime friend, we have known each other for more than fifteen years. But some things really annoy me about her and I can’t get over them.

A friend has recently divorced

Her next upcoming wedding is a very good proof of that. It’s been about a year since she has a new boyfriend. I saw him a few times, and to tell the truth, I didn’t think it was anything serious between them. It is my friend’s first relationship after her recent divorce. She and her ex-husband had been together for almost four years and were the happiest couple I had ever seen.

They were like one body. They did everything together. They even decided to try for a baby. But one day it all ended. Daniela never really told me what happened between them. I just know that the divorce was very difficult for her and Dani mourned him a lot. I tried to support her, but she soon found a new man.

The ferryman turned out to be an adept for a husband

I thought that he would only play the role of a ferryman for her, that she just needed to recover from such a promising relationship. But Dani sees it differently. She’s never really confided in me about her feelings, so the engagement announcement really surprised me. “I am getting married. He finally proposed to me. I’ve been waiting for this for a long time,” she told me.

I couldn’t understand it, thoughts kept running through my head that they were together for a short time, that she couldn’t know him, and above all that he wasn’t the right one for her. I’ve only seen them together a few times, but even then you can get a picture of what it’s like between them.

I wish my friend luck, but he won’t find it here

But I didn’t tell her anything. She would definitely blame me for not wishing her a wedding. Which is kind of true. I wish she would finally find someone to be happy with, but I don’t think her current fiance is it.

I would like to tell her everything, but it is clear to me that I would come across. “You never wish me anything, everything good that happens to me is bad for you” I can totally hear her. It’s just sometimes difficult with Dani, but one thing is clear to me. A second marriage is not a good idea.